Lunes, Oktubre 10, 2011

Let’s talk about what do you do to hang out with a girl/guy?

Let’s talk about what do you do to hang out with a girl?
What do you say to conquer her?
Do you kiss her in the first time or you let the time pass and you kiss her in the fourth or fifth hangout?

ok

I don’t talk to girls in the street is so difficult the girls go away or the see with: boy1: face but when you see someone girl you go like a friend push you and you go and hit the girl and you say ohh :boy2: so sorry, ohh I see you anywhere and the girl o me too what is your name ? You are so beautiful and start talking
or in a party you go and say do you want to dance with me lady?
And dancing you starts talking

and all of you????
Well, I have always thought that the best thing that you can do is to be original since the first time you see her or talk to her. Just be yourself and only say things that you really want to say. If that girl is for you everything will happen naturally.
Let’s talk about what do you do to hang out with a guy?
Sometimes you will be in a situation where there are guys and girls hanging out together (whether it be a party, at the club, or any informal social situation) and you want to stand out among the other girls. You could be going on a group date for the first time with the guy(s) you want to test your feelings for. You could be at a party and you want to impress a particular guy you've known for some time. How can you impress that particular guy or guys without going too fast or seeming desperate to start a relationship? How can you hang out with guys casually while keeping the potential for a future relationship?
1.       Think ahead of time of the personality types of each guy that will be present at this social gathering. Determine whether they are extroverted, introverted, sporty, book-smart, etc. For example, this will help you avoid talking too much to a guy that is not talkative, which can lead them to be turned off from future outings with you. And you definitely want to make a positive impression on all of them, even if you are interested in just one or two, because the guy you don't care about could turn out to be the best friend of the actual guy you are interested in. Definitely keep all the guys on your good side!
2.       Observe carefully how the guys relate to one another and emulate their behavior towards them. They will see that you are making an effort to bond in their platonic relationship style, which gives you the upperhand. They will regard you as a platonic friend, so they will want to hang out with you another time. This will give you more opportunities to develop chemistry and attraction between you and them. Just remember to NOT ATTEMPT to go inbetween the guy bonds. Guys cherish their friendships, and you should too, so always allow them to do what they need to do.
3.       Be interesting. Guys can get very bored very quickly with a girl that has limited interests or conversation. Show off your knowledge and fun-loving nature to them by talking, teasing, playing a game, etc. But this doesn't mean to talk incessantly (as a lot of us are apt to do). Let them talk about themselves. Ensure them that you are listening by providing comments that are thought-provoking and fresh, which will leave them thinking longer about what you said. The longer they think about what you said, the more they think and wonder about you and their attraction to you. Guys love to solve mysteries!
4.       Socialize with everyone. If you are trying to keep your options open with the guys, or even if you have picked the guy you like, don't favor only one. Socialize with everyone, in similar proportions. Guys love social girls and this will also create a slight competition between the guys. Guys love chasing and proving themselves to a girl, it gives them a goal in socializing. If you are going to zero in on the potential guy, do it later on in the outing, but keep it aloof! You don't want to give away your pick too quick, or you will risk looking like you were just shopping for a mate!

Huwebes, Setyembre 22, 2011

How to be a Fun Person?

How to Be a Fun Person to Hang out With?
Steps:
Be confident. Let's face it--the basis for pretty much everything in our lives is confidence. We can avoid it and deny it all we want, but the truth is, believing in yourself, trusting yourself, recognizing self-worth, and leading a pro-active lifestyle are things that are required for almost any goal we wish to achieve, big or small. Before you even begin trying to become a fun person, you have to believe you can be a fun person, and believe that you are a wonderful, beautiful person as well. Nothing is wrong with believing in yourself, and it's looked up to but never looked down on. Most confident people have insecurities.
Make yourself vulnerable. Don't be afraid to take chances. Nobody who holds back is considered fun, TRUST ME. Think about the fun people you know--they take chances on a regular basis, both socially as well as in their life. This is hard at first and takes practice. But the more you do it the sooner it will just become a part of you.
Be spontaneous. Don't think too much, regardless of what anyone tells you. Just do it! Follow your heart! Don't over analyze things and don't spend a ton of time wondering what could go wrong, what someone else in your position would say, how you should react to what they're going to say next, etc. LOSE YOURSELF!! Forget about who may be listening or what people might think--just have fun. Don't worry about your surroundings or how you look what comes next. Being spontaneous is required, and though it's not easy at first, it ALWAYS pays off.
Be open-minded. Don't have a certain mindset or game plan in your head that if interrupted or morphed in any way will completely ruin everything. Realize that everyone changes their opinion often. It's just a part of life. Also, although a person needs standards, if your standards are too high and ridiculously strict, nobody will ever want to spend time with you. It's better to lean towards the loose than the uptight.
SMILE and LAUGH. A smile is a curve that can set things straight. It's easier than frowning--it takes roughly 62 muscles to frown while you only use 17 to smile. Even if you don't feel like smiling, putting on a grin radiates approachability, positivity, and friendliness. For the girls out there: guys are turned on and loosened up by laughs and smiles. Of course, don't overdo it and be annoying. But looking the part of a fun is half the battle, and it's not even really much of a battle because once you get the hang of it, smiling just becomes a reflex, and an attractive one at that. :)
Get physical. Use positive body language (keep your hands from touching and sit with your arms and legs fairly open, sit up straight, etc.) and don't be afraid to move around to show that you are laid-back and not uptight. For example, change the position your sitting in or cross and uncross your legs every now and then. Don't be antsy. Just don't be all tight and unapproachable.




Miyerkules, Setyembre 7, 2011

wAnnA hAvE fUn

                                                                       
                                                                       
                                                                      I liKe riDinG

aMusEmEnt riDEs aRe LaRge mEchaniCAL dEviCes tHAt moVe pEopLe to cReaTe EnjoyMenT. ThEy aRe fReqUentLy Found aT amUsemenT pArks, CarniVAls, and fUnFairs.....

Martes, Setyembre 6, 2011

hang out qoutes


Anger is natural. It's part of the force. You just have to learn to hang out with it.

I found there was only one way to look thin, hang out with fat people.

I used to hang out by the food table at parties because you don't have to talk to anybody. If you do then you can talk about the food.

Life is too large to hang out a sign: "For men Only

 “Men hang out their signs indicative of their respective trades: shoemakers hang out a gigantic shoe; jewelers, a monster watch; and the dentist hangs out a gold tooth; but up in the mountains of New Hampshire, God Almighty has hung out a sign to show

In this world full of pain and sorrow, maybe once in a lifetime, you'll find someone who will make you feel wonderful. Hang on to that someone no matter what!

There is no satisfaction in hanging a man who does not object to it.

If you're still hanging onto a dead dream of yesterday, laying flowers on its grave by the hour, you cannot be planting the seeds for a new dream to grow today

Huwebes, Setyembre 1, 2011

"When God Writes Your Love Story"



I love to sing, play volleyball, and hang out with my awesome friends (the new bf  being my fave so far...lol) Some random things about ... Erin Hegedus's Story ...

"When God Writes Your Love Story"
So many nights I would just cry myself to sleep, wondering what was wrong with me and why I didn't have that special someone in my life.
I've always wanted a boyfriend, someone to love and care about me in that special way, but I would only seem to meet the jerks. Throughout my teenage life, I would meet these "incredible" guys. We would click so well, then all of a sudden they would change and things would be over before they started.
Because all the situations where I've liked a guy, they've liked me, then a real relationship never happened and I was always let down, I thought that there was no hope for me. I came to the conclusion that I must be destined to be single. But the truth was, I wasn't completely trusting God in that area of my life and it caused me to fail. I would attempt to start a relationship with a guy, but I would never place God in the center of it.
About a year ago, I had met this "awesome" guy up north, he kept saying how much he liked me...but when we would hang out, he would be totally different, and it hurt me. I kept questioning God on why this guy, who was a "great Christian", wouldn't be compatible for me. All my family and close friends had a really bad feeling about me and this guy, they would tell me that I was blinded by my emotions and that by flying up north to see him again was stepping out of God's will because I was rebelling. In truth, I was going with what I wanted and wasn't listening to the advice of my parents, pastors, friends, and most of all, the Lord.
I was absolutely miserable. I felt so alone and heartbroken. I would always put on my "happy face" out in public, but in secret, I was so torn up inside. So many nights I would just cry myself to sleep, wondering what was wrong with me and why I didn't have that special someone in my life.
Then I read the book "When God Writes Your Love Story" and it completely changed my perspective on dating. I finally broke down and gave the pen of my love life to the Lord, trusting Him fully to write my beautiful story in His timing, not mine. If I hadn't read that book, I know without a shadow of a doubt that I wouldn't be at the place that I'm at right now in my walk with the Lord. I would still be miserably alone. I know that God needed to be that special Someone in my life before I ever tried to let a guy fill that void.
Since that year has gone by, God has placed in me a new hope and peace. Very recently, He has blessed me with amazing friends that are so encouraging and uplifting to me. I can't fathom what life would be like without them now, and as I look back on my life, I realize how foolish I was to even try to have a relationship with a guy without putting God in the center.

And now I can proudly say that my Father God has blessed me with an incredible boyfriend. I honestly couldn't ask for anyone better. So as both of us begin this journey together (some like to call it dating) and as we place God in the very center of it all, He will continue to reveal His will for our lives. Never lose hope, if God can write my love story, have fatih- I know He will write yours!



Miyerkules, Agosto 31, 2011

"TIME"


“TIME”
  
The time I WaS b0rn, I Was vEry LuckY
I sAw tHe LigHt That MaDe  mE HaPPy
As sUn Rise Up in ThE bluish sKy
I ReaLiZe that LifE is kiNda LovElY

wHEn thE time pass bY
I ReaLizEd tHat Life is nOt so eAsy
WhEnEver I’m aLonE and LonElY, mY FamilY comforts mE
aNd move mE to A right pAth

wHen time drives mE, I KnoW tHat LifE  is So  LoveLy
But LifE is MoRe LovElY  WhEn LovE arises
LovE is LikE aN aLarm cLock that  wAkeS y0u up
                   wHen love arise

“TiMe is goLd”
time iS mY inspiration, time wAkes mE Up
                   iN time I’ll nEEd iT
It controls mY Day tO dAy Light
I LikE time, it mAkes My wOrLd gO rOunD
It gave mE sometimes a LesSon
Is noT That EasY, CausE TiMe doesn’t Look Back anD turn Around
That’S wHy time is A time oF mY failure
And time is My HappinEss  in LiFE

that’s WhY I’ll AlWayS “HANG OUT” to Those Things That Makes Me HAppY.
bEcAuse I cAnnoT  Turn Back tHe cycle of TIME……..




Miyerkules, Agosto 24, 2011

Hanging Out with Friends


Hanging Out with Friends



         

When it comes to hanging out with friends, one can be sure that it is going to be absolutely amusing and unlimited fun. The talks seem to go on forever and any silly topic can become a point of lengthy discussions. 
Consider yourself lucky if you get to hang around with friends often because many people simply remember those good old days of carefree life with friends.

         One of the best places to hang out with friends is of course your own house! The comfort that your room offers cannot be offered by any mall or a pub. You can be yourself, kick up your heels, not worry about your looks and talk loudly about anything in the world. You need not worry about what to eat since junk food is just a phone call away! Order loads of pizzas, cola and French fries without worrying about condescending stares. You can eat as much as you want and however you want! The bottom line is to have fun without any worries. 

     Another fun place to hang around with friends is the lounge. Comfortable seating and soothing ambiance along with chilled drinks is the perfect setting for spending time with friends. If lounging is not your cup of tea, try hitting the bowling alley. A round of bowling games with friends is the perfect way to chill out. In case you are not into bowling, you can always go for a movie. These days you find coffee bars and small fast food joints near movie theaters where you can spend time after watching a movie. Whatever you do, remember to have loads of fun and enjoy. You may not get the opportunity to do so after some years.

Martes, Agosto 23, 2011

wHerE do wE hAng-oUt?


wE can hAng-out with our fRiends
Most of tHe time friends arE oUr conpanions wHen wE aRe full oF sorrows And burdens.
oFFenTimes they give possible solutions to ouR pRobLems. In RetUrn  wE share our deepest  felt emotions aNd EvEn secrets to TheM……

wE cAn hAng-out to our favorite Places


Places A group 0f ideas concerning significance and meanings that particular places have for their inhabitants and users.

As adventurous people, I LOVE seeing new places, meeting new people, to experience how is it felt to be cool of box for somewhat, somehow it gives me a chance to know myself more, and to make me understand the inner me……….


wE can hAng-out with our FamiLy
FamiLy group consisting of A FatheR, mother and their children.
fAmiLy is ThE  principal institution foR socialization of ChildRen And our family is our UltimaTe Listener, gUidance, supporter, giver,Adviser And most oF aLL our LovErs……..


wE caN congregate to thE Church

SomEtimes wE arE Weary anD wE do not know wHats Happening in oUr lives just convene to thE cHurch because……………
“Our lives arE made Up of million moments spent in A million different ways…..SomE aRe spent searching foR love, peace aNd success others, foR surviving daY to daY…but thEre’s  no greater moment than RealiZing tHat life is mEant to bE live onE daY aT A TimE With GOD……..






Biyernes, Agosto 19, 2011

I really like him...but does he feel the same bout me?


Best Answer
·         Spend more time with him and see where it takes you I think he likes u cuz any guy who wants to hang out with a girl more like her.

·         He's got to know ya and obviously likes who you are and all that stuff, so hang out with him when possible, as friends of course, and I wouldn't be surprised if it didn't go further. So my advice is to just hang out with him when possible and just keep being that friend to him and just wait and see where it might go. Sounds like you got a good chance here with this boy of having it grow to more than just friendship.

·         What you do know for sure is that he would like to hang out with you since that's what he said. So, be friendly, talk to him and maybe plan something to do together. You'll know if it's going to be anything serious in time. Just enjoy his friendship right now.

=)the only way to find out is to hang out and see what happens... either Your just another friend or he likes you...

Huwebes, Agosto 18, 2011

Let It All Hang Out ^_^

 

                                                          Let It All Hang Out ^_^


        Hang-out  with our Friends





hang-out ^_^

 
“Hang out”
..a place where a person spends a lot of time with someone.
..a place frequented for entertainment or for socializing…

Less serious than getting together or dating. Spending time with someone in the context of friendship or in the context of casually exploring whether you like someone as just a friend or maybe more than a friend.
 

Hang out anything from eating and sleeping to riding bikes and playing football
lets hangout.

 Hang out
·         to spend time with friends
·         or anybody else